Here’s why I don’t just confirm it for them. The second I say “yes, exactly,” it becomes my insight instead of theirs & insight someone hands you doesn’t rewire anything. Insight you arrive at on your own does. The brain treats those two things completely differently. So instead of confirming the pattern, I ask them to keep talking about it. Not because I don’t already see it, but because the moment they trace the connection themselves, between the tightness in their chest with their boss and th